Thanks Steve, no worry on my part, I know it's all for the best and I know for certain she is in a far better place without him and I'd have done everything in my power to insure it ended up with them staying apart. I'm just thankful his reaction didn't include the kids or her!!
You are absolutely correct, my biggest fear up until yesterday was that she would never have a chance to actually go out and date and start her life over, he was the type that would have been in the middle of anything she did and he was an MMA/UFC fighter so there was more than likely no way anyone would have endured his intervention and hung around. He certainly made her life going forward much easier, as you said, God has a plan, I see this as a good sign going forward, the world is hers now all she needs to do is make sure she's learned from her mistakes and head the right direction now and I'll be there to help although the choice is hers.