... it was inevitable that someone would say something that would insult a new owner (like in the Knotts thread.)...
When exactly did someone say something to insult a new owner in that thread?????
The question was whether or not the 68 and 07/08's CARS should be intermingled. And a few people felt the years should be parked together. That was it!
Someone took that the wrong and insinuated that the WHOLE FORUM GROUP feels that way. And then all hell broke loose.
This was not us and against them ... 68 against 07/08 owners or who's car was better it was about how would you like to see them represented at a show.
If anyone here is part of a car club that runs a show these kinds of questions and discussions come up all the time about car classes, layouts of show fields etc ... it's not about pride it's about what best represents what you're trying to get across.
If I was laying out a show field I would park them separate not intermingled ... not to exclude them but to keep the 68's grouped together and the 07/08's grouped together but next to each other. That's just an opinion it doesn't mean I don't welcome the 07/08 owners or don't want them around. It was just someone's opinion.
By now you have to realize that emails, forums and the like do not lend themselves to easily express feelings and tone like a live conversation. I don't care how many emoticons you use. If you haven't realized it yet ... start to realize it and before jumping down someone's throat ... if you are offended by something someone posted ... re-read it 3 or 4 times and think about the different ways it could be interpreted and give someone the benefit of the doubt before posting it for all the world to see and think about the repercussions of what you're about to post as well.
Or PM (private message) the person and ask what they meant.
If we were sitting around at a BBQ or something and having a conversation I'm sure someone would preface what they said with ... "This is just my opinion and no offense to anyone but...." That's too much typing people.
Now people are leaving the site over this? Come on people ... this is a place to come and share thoughts, ideas, knowledge etc ... this isn't "I'm taking my ball and going home" child's play. I'm sure plenty of people aren't posting that they're leaving the site because of all this but they probably are or will stop posting and just move on and I don't blame them.
This group was tough to break into even before the 07's came out for someone new that watches all the posts back and forth.. People know each other and are comfortable with each other to just say what's on their mind.
That's why everyone says it's like a family. Does everyone get along perfectly with their family or are there ups and downs and most of the time you get over it and you move on ... I know that's not always the case but for the most part you know what I mean.
I come to this site and "hang out" to take a break from the stress of work, kids, work around the house and whatever else is going on in this crazy world. Not to add more to my life.
I'm know I'm not the only person that bought their CS or HCS because of this site and the people on it. I may have passed on it if it wasn't for this site.
Maybe it should just have been a poll posted and not all this bantering ...
Speaking of polls there is a poll going on for the Calendar pictures ... has everyone voted yet? Does anyone know how the voting is going or is everyone too busy here? That used to be the busiest thread this time of year and it's dead. We used to try and match up owners with their cars in the past.
So "In my opinion and not to offend anyone by what's posted above these were just my thoughts" That and a dollar won't get you a cup of coffee at Dunkin Donuts or Starbucks or most any place else these days.
So someone grab me another beer and some of that tri-tip will ya?
So anyway ... I was out driving my CS the other day ...
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